Dee-Dee Kanhai

The Spice of Suburbia

Dee-Dee Kanhai

Dee-Dee Kanhai, aka “The Spice of Suburbia”, was a big city girl for 25 years who was transplanted to the Suburbs of Northern New Jersey. This relocation led to her “undoing” and with that, the discovery of her true self. Besides being a wife and mother to a teenage daughter and toy Chihuahua, Dee-Dee works in finance and owns a small Etsy Shop @LoveTheUndoing, where she sells heart-made jewelry, crystals, and other whimsical crafts. Dee-Dee is a student of life, teacher of meditation, practicing yogi and a mystical moon child.

My Writings…

Down The Shore June 6, 2019 I am lounging poolside in a chaise in Seaside Heights, New Jersey. A far cry from where I was a…
Dear Disease… May 8, 2019 Here goes… I am exhausted from “faking it”, no -not that… (Get your minds out of the GUTTER!) I am…
“This Little Light of Mine” – An Autism Mama Story April 22, 2019 Dee-Dee Kanhai, "The Spice of Suburbia" is honoring Autism Awareness Month by handing over her blog this month to her…
Blessed Be the Fruit March 20, 2019 Blogger: Dee-Dee Kanhai - "The Spice of Suburbia" I made it this far. I survived 17.5 years of parenting a…
February Faves February 11, 2019 Blogger: Dee-Dee Kanhai - "The Spice of Suburbia" Here are some things that have me EXCITED. There are a variety…
A Big Year Ahead January 16, 2019 Blogger: Dee-Dee Kanhai - "The Spice of Suburbia" When the clock struck MIDNIGHT on December 31st, I was surrounded by…
Rollercoaster December 11, 2018 BY: Dee-Dee Kanhai - "The Spice of Suburbia" I am going to be honest with you Feelers… November was a…
Couch Confessionals with…Dee-Dee Kanhai November 16, 2018 Couch Confessionals is a raw, honest chat session, where we go beyond the blog and dig into deep-truths about each…
#TDFLISTENS November 14, 2018 BY: Dee-Dee Kanhai - "The Spice of Suburbia" It wouldn’t be fair to my friends and loved ones to openly…
My Divine Passage October 17, 2018 BY: Dee-Dee Kanhai - "The Spice of Suburbia" S.E.X., sex. We have been learning about sex since grade school, where…
Shit Just Got Real September 3, 2018 It is August 23, 2018, the day I have long awaited, her 17th Birthday. Chloe’ my first and only born…
Visualization August 9, 2018                                        …
An Ugly Secret July 10, 2018 Two thousand, eight hundred posts on my Instagram and I have managed to keep “it” hidden… (for the most part!)…
WOKE May 29, 2018 This is probably going to be the hardest blog to date so forgive me in advance if my frustration or…
The Plot Twist May 9, 2018 Early November 2000, the week of my “actual” Birthday, not to be confused with the three weeks leading up to…
When You Come Undone April 11, 2018 I consider my “undoing” the biggest blessing in my life. I vividly recall the lead up to coming undone. I…