Lola U

Unfiltered Ageless Badass

Lola U

I am a 50-year old Latina divorcee who has been on a spiritual journey for, yikes, a really long time. Though I am not where I want to be, each day I do get closer to who I am meant to me.

I co-raised two young ladies and am a grandmother of two spunky, smart and funny kids – Max and Esme.

Education has been my niche for the last 20 years and I don’t know why. I wish someone had given me a career survey in high school or college to realize that #1- I am NOT a morning person and #2- I don’t really like kids, not even my own. So, I am searching for my passion. Not sure what that is yet. But there are a few things I am exploring, writing being one of them (that’s why I am here).

I have issues with commitment, not so much relationships but committing to my goals, putting in the work and seeing things through. But I did commit to making my 50’s the best decade ever. So far so good. I love yoga, traveling and writing; but mostly wine. Yes! I love wine.

My Writings…
Ebbs and Flows October 26, 2020 Hi, My Loves∼ It seems that 2020 is wrapping up quickly. Thankfully and I know many of you can’t wait…
Traveling during these different times September 30, 2020 Happy Fall!  I don’t know if I have mentioned this before but one of the things I love to do…
Shortage of Good Men August 26, 2020 Hi, Everyone! Can you believe that summer is already winding down?  I mean even though it feels as if I…
Quarantine and the Universe July 17, 2020 I’ve been reflecting on this quarantine and all that has happened in my life since March 13th.  I want to…
Dominican Self-hatred June 29, 2020 So, as a Dominican, Afro-Latina, and a woman in this country, I have some things to say.  I am not…
This too shall pass… May 15, 2020 Recently I’ve been at my wits end trying to figure out how else to fill my time these days.  Some…
Online Dating COVID-19 April 23, 2020 How are my single readers doing during this pandemic? Hopefully safe and healthy!!! Today I wanted to talk to you…
It’s Okay To Be Anxious During These Crazy Times We Are Living, But It’s Not Okay To Live In That Anxiety For Too Long. March 31, 2020 I was thinking about what I wanted to write about for this first blog on here.  I kept telling myself…